You want it all and on your terms NOW you say?
Join the queue!
It’s not doled out to everyone you know. Just the lucky few. Or those that fight for it.
But you don’t want to fight for it do you? Why not choose a softer, easier path?
Because YOU WANT IT ALL.
So yes there will be A LOT OF WORK and you will need to DIG DEEP to find the strength, resilience and resolve to KEEP ON KEEPING ON and you will need to prioritise and be disciplined. BUT you will happily CHOOSE the BLOOD, SWEAT and TEARS and over and over because you will be LIVING ON PURPOSE.
You are the one who gets to make.it.happen.
To want IT ALL YOU have to KNOW what ‘ALL’ is for you. What you WANT to create? What are you prepared to DO to create it? WHO you need to be? Above all you must KNOW how your vision FEELS.
Would you choose to work hard over something you don’t like or even hate OR spend your time working on something you love and are passionate about?
Oh what you thought that doing what you love should come easy and that it wouldn’t seem like hard work?
If you REALLY want something, especially a BIG goal, there WILL be HARD WORK. The decision you get to make is whether you ENJOY doing it or not.
And here lies why being Comfortable is actually more of a struggle to get out of than Struggle itself. With Struggle you really NEED, HAVE and WANT to do something about it and this is a powerful catalyst for change. Being Comfortable you have to REALLY REALLY REALLY WANT to.
Most people say they want to achieve something but they don’t really REALLY want it enough or else they would actually be doing something about it. Or most likely what they THINK they want is actually out of alignment with who they really are.
What keeps people stuck is that they first need to know WHO they really are; their desires and dreams; their thoughts and emotions; their strengths and weaknesses. In short, they need to know their light AND their dark.
Most people don’t really spend time understanding themselves within. They’re looking outside for validation, ideas, desires, or let others or society dictate. They drift around wondering why they’re not anywhere near achieving the goals they THINK they have set.
Unachieved goals are soul destroying. Is it better to lower your expectations and change your goals to suit what you can achieve from where you are now? Or go for them?
Being in total ALIGNMENT with a desire is the answer. You need to have BURNING DESIRE for a goal to put all else aside and to do.the.work.
So why aim lower? Why struggle to reach a comfortable goal when you can have the thrill and the challenge and THE REWARDS of going for your biggest dreams?
There are no shortcuts to success.
Sure, once you’re on the right path momentum gathers, you start rolling at full speed and to the outside world it looks like you are a magnet and everything seems to go right for you. Internally you are; you have set your magnet to due north and nothing can steer you off course.
It is FEELING THE PULL OF YOUR BIGGEST VISION strong enough is what enables you to keep going and in doing so your ‘magnetic strength’ increases and you DO literally ATTRACT the people the opportunities the money, the energy, the beliefs you need to speed up your journey and realising your goal.
But you must keep doing.the.work.
As for the lucky few?
Well, you get to CREATE being one of them too.
P.S. How much do you really want it all? What is ‘all’ for you anyway? WHO you really are and CREATE A LIFE YOU LOVE from the inside out. Join my community of like-minded, heart-centred women in The Dark Side Revolution (close FB Group) – a safe and supportive place for women to express and release their overwhelming emotions and liming beliefs to BLAST through ALL that stops them. A NEW FREE “Have it all” Challenge is coming soon….. send a request to join the group and YOU’RE IN! I look forward to welcoming you on the other (dark) side. x