PerMISSION ME was born out of finally FINALLY being DONE with NOT living out MY PASSIONS AND PURPOSE and holding myself back with fears, pains from the past and scarcity mentality.
I decided that ENOUGH WAS ENOUGH! I made a resolute decision that I would ONLY do what lights me up and that I would just have to be how I make money in order to live the life I dream of.
I decided then that I would just have to create it. I would make it happen. I would have it all.
I decided then that I CREATE my reality. I MAKE it happen. I HAVE it all.
In the present tense.
Whilst there is much I am still working towards in terms of the ATTAINMENT of my goals the important thing is that the FEELINGS, THOUGHTS and BELIEFS around that all that I desire means it IS DONE and that I ACT FROM this place of KNOWING.
I have realised that I had always been trying to ‘get there’ BEFORE I could ever have it all. I now know that I DO ACTUALLY HAVE IT ALL, it’s all there for the taking, I JUST HAVEN’T ACCESSED IT YET!
I appreciate this can seem crazy but it is the TRUTH.
This is how everything is CREATED: FROM the VISION.
Waiting to ‘get there’ never GOT ME THERE! It just got me a whole lot of struggle.
Focussing on what I really REALLY WANT to BE / DO / HAVE / THINK / FEEL in ALL AREAS of my life has brought me CLOSER to all of them. I can SEE them. I can FEEL them. I can SENSE them in my body. I just KNOW it is all happening. Anything that doesn’t feel that way means I am not fully ALIGNED with them either in my desire or my belief.
This is why it is ESSENTIAL to listen to your HEART: To know intimately what you truly desire.
Dispel your current reality (lack of money, time, inspiration, motivation etc) and FOCUS on YOUR DESIRES AS IF YOU HAD THEM ALL NOW and that YOU ARE THE PERSON WHO DOES. From here you WILL take INSPIRED ACTION.
To actually TRUST and FOLLOW your HEART’S DESIRES in this way you need to develop a deep, unconditional loving relationship with yourself through regular practise because inspired action will push you out of many comfort zones and beyond logic and ‘guarantees’.
Inspired action requires us to stretch, to EXPAND.
I believe that is what we are here for.
When we expand the world expands around us. WE STEP INTO OUR TRUE POTENTIAL. We DON’T reach our potential first THEN expand!
I have spent a lifetime TRYING to REACH my POTENTIAL with varying degrees of success but definitely with a whole lot more STRUGGLE-based hard work than FLOW-based hard work.
When I acknowledged that my true desires and goals are SO MUCH BIGGER AND BOLDER than I dared allow myself to admit previously, I knew that I would have to match them with bigger and bolder stretches and leaps out of comfort zones and safely nets.
This has been a process and requires RESOLUTE FAITH in MYSELF and that the UNIVERSE WILL RISE TO MEET ME.
The greater I have worked my faith, the bigger the leaps I have been able to take.
To do so I have looked to the many successful people in the world I admire who are living out their purpose and dreams and contributing to the world with their message AND money, whilst having the impact, relationships, health, body, lifestyle etc they want.
I have chosen to learn their ‘secrets’ because that is the life I WANT. I WANT IT ALL. That is the life I BELIEVE I am here to lead. And the conventional way of “doing life” just isn’t going to get me there.
The last 20 years for me has been as much as an unlearning of the old as learning of the new in terms of PERSONAL and SPIRITUAL development. But really the biggest shifts in my life have come in the last 12 months since embracing EMOTIONAL EXPRESSION as the prerequisite from which everything else can flow.
Meaning that is was my SUPPRESSED EMOTIONS that I was unaware of or not acknowledging that were STOPPING ME from MOVING FORWARD.
Because I had done SO much mindset and spiritual work, releasing and expressing my buried emotions has literally resulted in the UNLEASHING OF ME!
I AM FULLY and COMPLETELY AUTHENTICALLY ME.
If thats not giving yourself permission then I don’t know what is!
And the thing is, it was pretty EASY! In that was a choice.
Facing the uncomfortable and scary emotions is DIFFICULT but the DECISION to do so is SIMPLE because LIVING A LIFE ON PURPOSE IN PASSION AND FLOW and HAVING IT ALL to me is worth the work. Even if it takes a lifetime.
That’s the resolve. That’s what it takes. There simply has to be no other option.
It’s going for your dreams ALL IN or not going for them. You cannot be half-hearted. Why would you want to be?
This is YOUR LIFE.
What are you choosing to DO with it? How are you choosing to SHOW UP to it? What is it you REALLY WANT anyway?
You need to know it all INTIMATELY to HAVE IT ALL.
GO NOW! Put ALL limitations aside and dream your BIGGEST BEST LIFE and all that you REALLY REALLY WANT, not what you THINK you can have, what you actually WANT.
Then you can RELEASE what’s stopping you.
Work backwards to go forwards!
PS If you are READY to MOVE FORWARDS and HAVE IT ALL join The Dark Side Revolution (Private FB group) – a safe and supportive space for women to release their overwhelming emotions to transmute limiting beliefs and all that is stopping them. My FREE 5 DAY HAVE IT ALL CHALLENGE starts Monday 20th June signup inside the Revolution. I look forward to welcoming you on the other (dark) side. x