Creeps in unawares.
You don’t see it.
You don’t want to.
You don’t believe you have it.
It is not WHO YOU ARE.
You’re right of course but you DO have self doubt, everyone does, so GET OVER IT!
I don’t mean just get over self doubt as such, I mean get over THINKING that you don’t or that as a ‘confident person’ you are not suppose to have it. Yes you do need to be able to ‘get over it’ when it rises and become more attuned at recognising it hiding behind a plethora of reasons and excuses. You need to acknowledge it is there and a major driving force stopping you from reaching or even trying to go for your goals.
Allow it in. Unconscious self-doubt IS FAR MORE DEBILITATING than ACCEPTING it is there.
If you feel any RESISTANCE, ANXIETY, OVERWHELM, self-doubt is driving it .
It may seem counterproductive but give Self Doubt a voice! Allow her to EXPRESS her feelings.
What she has to say is NOT a reflection of you but she will RULE YOUR LIFE if you DENY her.
I know you want to live a life ON PURPOSE.
I know you have an important message to share that CAN and WILL CHANGE THE WORLD.
I know you know YOU WERE BORN FOR MORE.
I know you want to be WEALTHY in ALL AREAS of your life.
I know you know you CAN HAVE IT ALL.
I know that deep down you know it is all POSSIBLE, that living your dreams IS is who you really are.
You are deserving. You are creative. You are successful. You are passionate. You are driven. You are brave. You are good enough!.
Trust in this inner wisdom and the very fabric of you IS SAFE even in the face of self-doubt.
Welcome her in with open arms. Get to know her nuances. LOVE her unconditionally. She will be TRANSMUTED by the LIGHT of your compassion and open up to your truth. Stand together; you and Self-doubt and allow your AUTHENTIC SELF-CONFIDENCE to enable you overcome any perceived obstacle.
DENY Self-doubt and she wins out!
ACCEPT her and you WILL RISE as your TRUE SELF onwards and upwards towards your biggest dreams.
Allow all that you want to hide or run from to come forward and JUST BE.
Don’t doubt doubt.
Don’t fear fear.
Don’t judge judgement.
Don’t be ashamed of shame.
Feel them. Integrate them into your consciousness. Release them.
Stand in YOUR TRUTH and EMBRACE IT ALL.
Transformation is in YOUR power. .
PS ENOUGH with Self-doubt stopping you from moving forward and going for your dreams!! Get to the ROOT CAUSE by healing your emotional blocks…. Join The Dark Side Revolution – a safe and supportive space for women to express and release their overwhelming emotions and limiting beliefs. I look forward to welcoming you on the other (dark) side. x