Who do you think you are? What makes you so special? Why should you get to choose what you want to be do have?
You don’t know how to do it. You are trying, yes, but you don’t know how. You haven’t got what it takes. It’s just not in your blood, your family, your reach, your destiny. You need to stay the same. OK maybe grow a little or even a lot from the teachings of life but transformation and quantum leaps? They’re not for you. You’ll fail. It cant be done.
Breaking out of our conditioning, unconscious blocks and the opinions of naysayers are major hurdles to overcome in order give ourself permission and to keep on keeping on.
It’s so hard not get pulled back into your old way of thinking, believing, being.
But by accepting them as what they really are; the stories we tell ourselves or someone else’s, it allows us to write new ones based on who we want to be. Or rather WHO WE REALLY ARE.
If you know inside of you that you are meant for something else then this is your calling.
If you know inside of you that are meant for more then this is your calling.
If you know inside of you that you are not being true to yourself then this is your calling.
Becoming MORE YOU is your calling. PerMISSION YOU is your calling.
You must FOLLOW your calling.
It wont let up and it certainly wont happen unless you do.
Then you must KEEP ON FOLLOWING IT.
Whatever roles you’ve been given by life, whatever has defined you, can be REWRITTEN. Yes to see it through to fruition will take work mentally and spiritually but you have to START WITH THE END IN MIND.
So WHO are you really? What does the real you YEARN for? What makes the real you COME ALIVE and feel ON PURPOSE?
Whatever FEELS RIGHT is in ALIGNMENT with your truth. Give yourself permission to acknowledge it all. If you don’t know then simply allow yourself to get of sense of what is true for you.
For most of my life I have been figuring out what WASN’T right or in alignment for me. I kept thinking that by ticking things off my ‘Not To Do’ list it would somehow get me closer to what I really wanted.
I did have a sense of what I wanted but I wasn’t focussed on it because I didn’t believe it was possible; that I was ready; that is was ALLOWED.
I was waiting for someone else to say “You can go for this now. You are ready now”.
Or maybe if I was lucky the Universe might hand it to me on a plate, especially if I diligently carried on eliminating the stuff I didn’t want to do and focussed on my personal and spiritual development. Surely it was just a matter of time before my destiny would land on my lap.
But how can it? Our desires and our destiny are not OUTSIDE of ourselves.
I have been so close to following the pull inside but pretty soon I would look outward and in doing so loose sight of my big vision. My goals would get smaller. I would contract.
Back into my pigeon hole I would go…..
But since embarking on my PerMISSION ME journey I have opened myself up to POSSIBILITIES and POTENTIAL. My desires. My potential.
This gives me hope, focus and determination to face all that stands in my way or is pulling me back.
Because it feels right listening within seems easier. Because it feels right taking action feels less scary. Because it feels right working hard has more flow.
I will not allow myself to be pigeon-holed again.
P.S. If you would like help getting out of your pigeon hole for good then come and join The Dark Side Revolution (Closed FB Group) – a safe and supportive place for women to face all that stands in their way or pulls them back. I look forward to welcoming you on the other (dark) side. x