I have decided to be a Good Decision Maker.
I have had this long-term belief I am bad a making decisions. Big ones, small ones it doesn’t matter.
I make one then the self-doubt rises and I either give myself a hard time wondering if I have made the wrong one and looking outside of myself for verification because I want guarantees. I want someone else to say it’s OK. Obviously some decisions affect other people so clearly there needs to be some agreement but I am talking about decisions I have to make about the things I want to do or have or be in my life.
I realised that the decisions that cause me the most doubt or I later regret are when I haven’t actually committed to the decision.
Ridiculous I know. Decisions are by nature a commitment. But unless you commit to the decision, a decision is merely a thought in the moment, an ideal, a pipe-dream.
A committed decision is FACT. You may not know HOW. You may not even fully believe you can (yet) BUT you absolutely know YOU WILL make it happen.
So, I have decided that I now make decisions FAST based on my goals, intentions, dreams and what feels right; what lights me up; what I am being called to do; what I would do if I had no fear.
I allow myself to feel the fear of course, release it, let it go and go within, then I make the decision from here.
I trust this is right. I HAVE to. I CHOOSE to. I have DECIDED to.
There are no guarantees but there is no alternative.
I NEED TO DO WHAT I CAME HERE TO DO. What I honestly feel I was born for. I NEED to make it happen. I ALLOW myself to make it happen. I CHOOSE to make it happen.
I have DECIDED to DECIDE to MAKE.IT.HAPPEN.
I don’t know how or even what ‘IT’ all is yet: my message. I know I have one. A BIG one. And that I MUST share it. It is my responsibility. I have decided to take it on.
I have decided that I need to be fully supported to do the work I was born to do.
I have decided that the work I was born for needs to fully support me. That is, I have decided to make money doing what I came here to do, using my unique blend of gifts and talents doing WHAT I LOVE.
I have decided that I am ALLOWED to do that.
I have decided that I DESERVE to do that.
I have decided I am ENOUGH to do that.
I have decided to BELIEVE I can do that.
I have decided to give myself PerMISSION to do that.
I have decided that I AM DOING THAT.
My decision is final.
What do you decide?
P.S. If you have the call and need to support to make your decision final then I invite you to embark on PerMISSION YOU. This forthcoming programme will give you the tools and coaching you need to ALLOW yourself to MAKE.IT.HAPPEN. If this resonates with you please message me firstname.lastname@example.org and let me know what’s going on for you. x
P.P.S. If you want to shift your fear around decisions then come and join The Dark Side Revolution FB group – a safe place for WOMEN only to face all that stands in there way and learn healthy to release overwhelming emotions to a place of stillness and knowingness. I look forward to meeting you on the other (dark) side. Together we will find the light. x