A rant to self:
To overcome resistance; to find the grit and determination and commitment to the cause; to face the inevitable challenges ahead and ultimately face the fears that keep you blocked; you need to have PASSION, HOPE, BELIEF and PURPOSE.
You need CRYSTAL CLEAR CLARITY ON WHAT YOU WANT.
So what do you ACTUALLY REALLY want? Like the BIG DREAMS. Your Life MORE EXTRAORDINARY.
What is it you want to create?
Fuck the HOWs.
It’s your WHY: the overall FEELINGS and BENEFITS of the RESULTS YOU DESIRE. You need to know them intimately.
Otherwise you AIN’T GONNA MAKE IT.
NO ONE ELSE can tell you what that it is. NO ONE ELSE will give it to you.
Your dreams, your desires, your hopes, your passions are YOURS.
YOU need to make the decision: to go for them ALL IN, ALL THE WAY, NO MATTER WHAT.
It takes WORK.
WHO do you need to BECOME?
WHAT do you need to BELIEVE?
WHAT do you need to LET GO OF?
WHAT gets you SO FIRED UP you leap out of the bed before the birds in the morning?
WHAT does your Extraordinary life LOOK like to you? What does is SOUND, TASTE, SMELL, LIKE?
WHAT is the LEGACY you want to leave on this planet?
Sound to big? Too scary? Too ridiculous? Too unrealistic?
WHO THE HELL ARE YOU to THINK you can have it all on your terms anyway?
What if I told you you can’t have any of it; your dreams? That achieving them is NOT for someone like YOU. Someone like you has to live a certain way, reach a certain level of ‘success’ (and that could be pretty damn high), make a certain about of money in a certain way, have a certain level of fulfilment, thrill, challenge, excitement? But NEVER actually DO WHAT YOU LOVE and live a life that thrills you because that is NOT FOR SOMEONE LIKE YOU?
How does that make you feel?
Do you agree? Do you feel angry?
Here’s the thing: you can LOVE THE LIFE YOU ALREADY HAVE AND STILL WANT MORE.
In fact you NEED to love the life you have and who you are, to create more.
YOU WILL ALWAYS WANT MORE! Celebrate it!
It’s not wrong or selfish.
It means you have passions and ideas. It means you have goals. It means you love to strive. It means you KNOW there IS more within you and for you. It it means YOU ARE EVER-EVOLVING.
This is about NOT DENYING yourself the life (and business) you TRULY DESIRE.
Only YOU can give yourself the PERMISSION to dream it. Only YOU can give yourself the permission to GO FOR IT. Only YOU can DO THE WORK.
The only question is:
HOW MUCH DO YOU WANT IT?
P.S. Are you ready to do the work to pursue your Life More Extraordinary? If so then join The Dark Side Revolution (closed FB Group) to face all within you that gets in your way. You are the creator of your life! What you feel and think affects your actions,results and how others respond to you. Your have the power. Take ownership. Make it happen. x